tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post3924786299749059205..comments2023-10-29T09:57:41.194-04:00Comments on From Fat to Fab: The Blame GameTammyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09903038555489140718noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-45968426455734866792009-09-23T07:10:45.209-04:002009-09-23T07:10:45.209-04:00I think you should continue to write about your st...I think you should continue to write about your struggles with eating right with Dwayne around because I'm sure many of us (me) have to deal with this same issue. My bf works construction and can put away allot of food without gaining and I have to remember I have a desk job and can't keep up with him and his eating if I expect to lose weight. <br /><br />Time to kick Fat Tammy to the curb and show her who's the boss.MBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01430150187237706515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-63072718680623809322009-09-22T21:59:10.109-04:002009-09-22T21:59:10.109-04:00Are you sure the reasons that sent out on this bin...Are you sure the reasons that sent out on this binge aren't important? Maybe too personal to post, but I would say you need to really recognize what feelings/buttons/anger/stress/frustration/person got you going so you can recognize it coming at you next time.<br /><br />Don't be too hard on yourself. Write about what you need to and don't worry about others! Who cares if someone thinks you write about Dwayne too much. This is your blog,your time to heal and you're well on your way!!!!divadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12185277600611550619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-12092087669754037652009-09-22T17:55:51.325-04:002009-09-22T17:55:51.325-04:00Sorry to hear you are having a crappy time... I kn...Sorry to hear you are having a crappy time... I know you can beat this though! Maybe if you forcefeed carrots and rice cakes to Fat Tammy she'll leave? Grin! Seriously though, you have been so dedicated and you just need to remember one thing to make it through this ordeal and every other one that may come your way in the future: you deserve to be successful. Hugs!266https://www.blogger.com/profile/16170707764904423302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-19895636868607414332009-09-22T17:41:40.295-04:002009-09-22T17:41:40.295-04:00I think that if it helps you process your issues w...I think that if it helps you process your issues with eating and the eating that happens with Dwayne, you should write about it!! It's all about what's comfortable for you, but don't forget that this is your space to use in whatever way helps you most!S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03836235325070830218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-2016415058468357612009-09-22T15:28:57.725-04:002009-09-22T15:28:57.725-04:00Hey girl...so sorry to hear your having a hard tim...Hey girl...so sorry to hear your having a hard time...I have those days too sometimes and it is sometimes really hard to get back on track...but you have come so far...and I know you can do this!:) You are an inspiration to me and many others...take care...:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12907280573399045083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-28091297671043931062009-09-22T14:45:10.744-04:002009-09-22T14:45:10.744-04:00Sometimes a binge, or relapse into our old ways, c...Sometimes a binge, or relapse into our old ways, can be a good thing in that it SCARES THE HECK out of you and reminds you of how hard you've worked to get where you are now. Hang in there, THINTAMMY - you are here for good!Shelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05890227462052573887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-60271448692425981362009-09-22T13:11:05.626-04:002009-09-22T13:11:05.626-04:00I'm sorry you're having a rough time, Tamm...I'm sorry you're having a rough time, Tammy. But this is when you just need to power through it, make yourself eat well and exercise even if you don't want to. Your mojo will eventually come back, but right now just remember to stay on track even if you're really not feeling it.screwdestinyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00777895976599010393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-68351756525540185312009-09-22T13:04:06.042-04:002009-09-22T13:04:06.042-04:00I am a new reader so I am probably missing somethi...I am a new reader so I am probably missing something, but I am sure many of us have issues with a spouse eating differently than we do. My husband is more than a little sick of my few choices for eating out, I don't take it as he wants me to fail or needs to go. Your husband didn't want Subway on his way to a getaway, seems normal to me. Since so many of us do deal with these issues I think it is good to talk about it, it helps us all. If you are sick of the subject then don't write about it. But if you are stopping because of your readers then don't stop, if someone does not like it they know where the exit is. Best of luck to you this week. I know how you feel, my inner fatty has taken up residence this whole summer. I will be checking in to see how you get rid of her!Jill P. (JSP)https://www.blogger.com/profile/06747289586246112711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-26267146095570867882009-09-22T13:01:18.551-04:002009-09-22T13:01:18.551-04:00Hey Tammy - Sorry you're having a rough patch....Hey Tammy - Sorry you're having a rough patch. I'm not sure those impulses to binge eat will ever go away, but good for you fighting against them. I work on it everyday.<br /><br />I'm sure Dwayne has plenty of good qualities, or else why would you be with him, right?<br /><br />Keep at it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-48381638301540346682009-09-22T11:55:45.142-04:002009-09-22T11:55:45.142-04:00Glad to hear you are safe. I've been thinking ...Glad to hear you are safe. I've been thinking about you and all this terrible rain...especially up your way! Hang in there girl. We ALL have our bad times and sounds like you are doing all you can by getting back on track. The sun is coming back out will help and fall is almost here. I know that will help me with my exercise and my mood!Tinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13857836351568153432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-66227788669247434612009-09-22T11:37:55.449-04:002009-09-22T11:37:55.449-04:00Don't you dare let Fat Tammy take control! I ...Don't you dare let Fat Tammy take control! I am wearing my "Team Slim Tammy" T-shirt!<br /><br />And, no, breaking up with anyone over food sounds a bit extreme, lol.Fat[free]Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09657562694069139967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-39180058911353970932009-09-22T11:36:51.326-04:002009-09-22T11:36:51.326-04:00Even in your fear I sense strength. We're bot...Even in your fear I sense strength. We're both having a rough spell, but things will get better. Sometimes, it's the rough days that make you stay focused on what you're doing and why you are doing it, instead of just being in a haze.<br /><br />And Dwayne is a lovely guy, or else you wouldn't be with him, right? Everyone has their little quirks -- none of us are perfect. My own Phil is a junk-food eater and turns his nose up at healthy food ... I know what a struggle it's like to be with someone like that. It's your choice to decide to cut Dwayne's food choices out of your blog, but in my opinion, don't be afraid to talk out what you're struggling with. We are here for you. :)Jogging Auburnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07533173045947568210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-10410111176319789102009-09-22T11:32:46.828-04:002009-09-22T11:32:46.828-04:00You sound like me in many ways. That is why I mad...You sound like me in many ways. That is why I made the choice to get the band. This has to help because nothing else has. I hope to have the surgery in January. My DH is also getting banded so we will have a built in support team.DBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12171014224700094700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-68408995672085434182009-09-22T11:20:04.259-04:002009-09-22T11:20:04.259-04:00Hi Tammy. So so sorry to hear this. I know how muc...Hi Tammy. So so sorry to hear this. I know how much losing weight means to you. I'm assuming something tipped this bingeing off - it's never for no reason. When stuff happens we go back to our old comfort even though it's the least comforting thing in the world in reality. But bingeing is like stepping out of reality for a while. <br /><br />The only thing to do is to get back on track asap and that's just what you've done. And well done for being honest about it. You CAN stay strong. <br /><br />I think your decision about Dwayne is a good one. This blog is about you not him. And I think it's a part of you perhaps separating your addiction from him. I think psychologically and intellectually this is a good move. Too often a partner can be co-dependent whether deliberately or not. If you are able to step out of that co-dependency then that is really positive. <br /><br />Remember, you've had 3 1/2 good months so that is a massive change and this is just a blip. I think you're doing great.<br /><br />Email me any time. <br /><br />Best wishes,<br />Bearfriend xxFriend of the Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01338137165061207438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-72787386531583926462009-09-22T11:02:44.030-04:002009-09-22T11:02:44.030-04:00Tell that bitch Fat Tammy to pack her bags (includ...Tell that bitch Fat Tammy to pack her bags (including her snacks) and hit the road. She's not welcome here anymore...Cole Walter Mellonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14792991151019418800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-88913732257698399122009-09-22T10:57:40.810-04:002009-09-22T10:57:40.810-04:00Fat Tammy...allow me to introduce you to Fat Britt...Fat Tammy...allow me to introduce you to Fat Brittany. If you've seen today's blog, you'll know that I am having a bad time too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-69281619781722576732009-09-22T10:23:16.579-04:002009-09-22T10:23:16.579-04:00Oh Tammy, I am sorry it was such a rough day.
I ...Oh Tammy, I am sorry it was such a rough day. <br /><br />I think those of us who have struggled our whole lives with weight will always have to fight our old ways from time to time, even after we reach our goals. The fights may be further apart, but I think they will always be there in part, and we'll just learn to fight them better.<br /><br />I think its great to get a wake up call every once in a while. Fear can be an excellent motivator when you let it. <br /><br />Skinny Tammy is stronger than Fat Tammy...you'll see!Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15462280506557043575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6654199466450477041.post-49382343422360406142009-09-22T10:19:53.168-04:002009-09-22T10:19:53.168-04:00Hi Tammy ... don't you worry, you will get you...Hi Tammy ... don't you worry, you will get your game back on. You are doing fabulous. Sometimes we slide a little, or in my case a lot. You will get it back, don't you worry.<br /><br />I hope things are OK in your world. Post when you can. Take care279https://www.blogger.com/profile/00348135369049732920noreply@blogger.com